I was watching black in America on youtube, it was dedicated especially at black women. It was very interesting and it did open my eyes to a phenemon that is happening right now. It seems like seventy per cent of black women are single in america, the reasons for it? These women are highly educated, and are making a lot a money...unfortunately there are not a lot of black ( i should say enough ) men that are as educated, and accepting that their woman makes more or men that earn more. I personally have not been in America, only once and for a week, so I can't really talk about this issue regarding the states.
However....
I did once dated a guy that was twenty and....( U_U oooh boy) still in high school, he had no ambition and often would come up to me complaining " how come I don't buy him something"...yes I know, it's like WTF! He just wanted to have babies and chill while I work ( so not happening bro xp)
And unfortunately for me, there were several guys where I lived that were like this, no ambition, zero. I have learn my lesson at least
I do find it tough to date a guy, not just black, that meets my requirements ( not that i have a supe long list but...I am all I have got and I aint compromising). The video then finished concluded that many black women were now dating outside of race, now let's pause here. I think black women should stop limit themselves, there are so many great guys out there, we are still waiting for our chocolate prince. I myself didn't think twice when meeting a white guy I must admit, but after that video I thought: here I am waiting for my chocolate prince to come ( i have been seriously waiting!), kissing frogs that I (reaallly) shouldn't kiss while there is so many other kinds of princes right next to me.
Now I am not saying I'm through with black guys, I just decided to date good (and every color of ) guys <3
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